Gifts for Her (or Him) – Defined and Refined.
The girls always seem to get most of the gifts. Well, at least the smaller nicer looking ones. The guys tend toward big boys toys which admittedly seem to end up costing a lot more. Having said that, its the desire of a good bloke to make his girl happy and there is no better way of doing this than with a small gift. It doesn’t have to be expensive, but it must meet certain criteria in order not only to be appreciated but to fulfill an important aspect of gift giving, and that is MOTIVE.
Girls do appreciate the item itself but it must be said in most cases that girls, along with all of us for that matter, like to feel that the giver is making the sacrifice out of a good feeling of the heart, not just out of obligation or to curry certain favors or benefits to oneself. The best gifts are the unselfish type. These are the gifts that last for a very long time and make for the happiest relationships.
Some very thoughtful advice if you are buying something for someone
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What is the definition of a true gift?
How do you find the ‘right’ gift for that special person ? (a girl, a wife,a husband,a relative or friend)
What is a gift ‘prompt’ and why you might need to avoid them in gift giving?
How can you avoid being controlled by Piers and perceptions in gift giving?
What legitmiate thing can you expect from gift giving which has nothing to do with money or things?
How can you make sure your gifts will be appreciated? How can you avoid turning gifts into negative effects? What has MOTIVE got to do with Gift Giving? What positive thing does gift giving do for the giver? Maybe you can think of other questions that could be asked about this important subject.
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